👋 Hey friends,
It’s that time of year again — the world slows down, inboxes fill with glittering offers, and somehow even your phone feels merrier.
But here’s what most people don’t realize: behind every “perfect gift” suggestion and last-minute sale notification is a network of algorithms quietly choreographing the holiday rush.
This year, the biggest story in retail wasn’t who offered the best deals — it was how AI learned to feel festive.
Across the web, large language models and recommendation engines didn’t just predict what we’d buy.
They anticipated why we buy — and in the process, turned Christmas into the most emotionally intelligent shopping season ever.
So today, we’re peeling back the wrapping paper on what might be the most human moment in tech yet.
In This Edition, We’ll Explore:
How AI-powered personalization made 2025’s holiday shopping feel almost magical
The “Emotion Engine” that taught algorithms to read joy, nostalgia, and generosity
What the numbers say about AI’s impact on spending and consumer behavior
Lessons for builders: how to design products that spark delight, not just conversion
And finally — what this season teaches us about scaling empathy, not just efficiency
— Naseema Perveen
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TL;DR
This Christmas wasn’t powered by discounts, it was powered by data that understood joy.
AI didn’t just make shopping smarter. It made it warmer, predicting not what people buy, but why they buy.
The Spark: When Shopping Feels Like Magic
A decade ago, holiday shopping online meant endless searching, comparing, and second-guessing.
Now, it feels like the internet already knows what we need.
You open a store app, and the first recommendation feels perfect.
You browse for your sister’s gift, and it reminds you of the cozy candle you got her last year.
You pause for a second on a jacket — and an ad appears a few minutes later, “25% off — just for you.”
That’s not luck.
That’s machine learning meeting emotion.
A few numbers tell the story:
The Data Corner: 2025’s Christmas by the Numbers
AI-driven traffic to retail sites skyrocketed, up ~830 % YoY, as shoppers increasingly turned to AI assistants for product discovery. (Forbes)
33% of shoppers used ChatGPT-style tools for gift planning (Deloitte)
4% overall lift in U.S. holiday retail spend (Visa, Mastercard)
The numbers all whisper the same truth:
AI didn’t make shopping colder.
It made it more human.
If 2023 was the year AI entered the store, 2025 is the year it started decorating the shelves.
The algorithms don’t just show options — they sense intent.
They learn the emotional weight of a word like “surprise.”
When it works, it doesn’t feel like code.
It feels like kindness.
The Joy Layer: When Algorithms Learn to Feel
Underneath this digital cheer are models trained on patterns of behavior, tone, and timing.
AI isn’t just automating what to sell — it’s predicting how to make people feel understood.

A product designer at a major retailer put it perfectly:
“We stopped optimizing for clicks. We started optimizing for delight.”
Here’s how it’s working behind the scenes:
1️⃣ Generative persuasion
Holiday ads are now co-written by AI copywriters like Jasper and Typeface.
They generate emotional variants tuned to each user’s tone.
Cheerful tones for cozy home gifts.
Practical tones for electronics.
Nostalgic tones for family memories.
Every line is trained to reflect not demographics, but sentiment.
2️⃣ Recommendation systems that actually remember
Modern engines detect gifting patterns, not just purchase frequency.
If you buy educational toys each year, the model knows your audience.
If you add a second pair of mittens, it might suggest matching scarves — not because it’s seasonal, but because it fits your rhythm.
3️⃣ Predictive logistics
AI supply systems now forecast regional demand days before it spikes.
That’s how “out of stock” became almost obsolete this season.
Together, these systems don’t just sell — they serve.
What used to feel like coincidence now feels like care.
The Emotion Engine: How AI Learned the Language of Cheer
Every Christmas campaign aims for the same four emotions: joy, nostalgia, gratitude, connection.
In 2025, those aren’t guessed — they’re modeled.
Through a branch of research called affective computing, AI learns emotional resonance from language, tone, and even emoji usage.
LLMs now detect subtle cues like “something special for my mom.”
Vision models adjust color warmth and lighting in real-time ad imagery.
Recommendation systems elevate emotionally congruent content — not just bestsellers.
In one campaign study, when customers mentioned “missing home,” AI shifted visuals to cozy, family themes. When they searched “quick gifts,” it swapped to fast, helpful tones.
This is personalization evolving into empathy at scale.
The AI Behind the Joy
Behind every cheerful interface sits a complex orchestra of systems designed to make technology feel human.
Here’s what’s powering this year’s magic:
Fine-tuned LLMs for tone: Retailers now fine-tune large models on holiday data so every message feels festive but brand-consistent.
Real-time embeddings: Each click creates a vector — a small fingerprint of mood and intent.
Conversational commerce: Tools like Shopify Sidekick and Klarna Copilot let shoppers chat naturally (“What’s trending under $50?”).
Predictive empathy: Some brands now run content through “warmth scoring” — predicting how emotionally inviting it will feel before it goes live.
When it’s done right, this doesn’t manipulate — it multiplies meaning.
💡 The Big Shift: From Transactions to Traditions
The most successful brands this season didn’t optimize for traffic.
They optimized for memory.
Because while AI has always been about scale, this year it scaled something different — intimacy.
Think about it:
Netflix’s homepage knows when you crave comfort.
Spotify Wrapped feels like a love letter from your past self.
Amazon subtly mirrors your family’s buying habits — not the global trend.
That’s the real evolution.
Not automation, but anticipation with empathy.
As one growth PM put it:
“We stopped trying to make AI feel smart. We started trying to make it feel sincere.”
Lessons for Builders: The Holiday Growth Playbook

For product teams, Christmas isn’t just a season — it’s a stress test for emotion at scale.
Millions of micro-interactions, all happening at once.
And behind them, one question every product team should ask:
How do you design systems that don’t just perform — but feel?
AI quietly answered that question this year. The same models powering ads, recommendations, and logistics also revealed a deeper truth: technology that anticipates emotion wins.
Here’s what this season taught us about building products that grow — and resonate.
1️⃣ Design for delight, not just efficiency.
People don’t remember metrics. They remember moments.
When shoppers open an app and it instantly recalls what they gifted last year — that’s delight.
When your platform notices someone’s routine and nudges them at just the right time — that’s design empathy.
Efficiency gets you a user.
Delight keeps them loyal.
The best teams treat delight like a KPI — tracking joy events, not just clicks.
Ask yourself:
Where does your product make someone smile, pause, or feel seen?
Those are your retention loops in disguise.
2️⃣ Automate empathy.
We often talk about “personalization” as a feature. But the real challenge is feeling personal — at scale.
AI can help, not by faking emotion, but by identifying where emotion already exists.
Sentiment analysis tools (like MonkeyLearn or Cohere sentiment APIs) can flag frustration, confusion, or happiness in feedback.
Instead of reacting to volume, respond to feeling.
A “thank you” in a user review should trigger a different workflow than a “this keeps crashing.”
Small emotional signals often outperform large technical leaps.
Empathy isn’t about slowing down. It’s about tuning in.
3️⃣ Make anticipation your metric.
Great product design doesn’t wait for users to ask.
It learns their rhythms, predicts their needs, and quietly clears friction before it’s felt.
That’s what holiday AI systems did best this year — from predicting delivery surges to surfacing the “perfect gift” just before a user searched for it.
Imagine applying that mindset to your product:
Can you predict when a team will hit a bottleneck and surface help?
Can you anticipate when motivation drops and nudge engagement?
The future of retention isn’t reactivity — it’s preemption.
Your product’s intuition is your next competitive edge.
4️⃣ Connect sentiment to action.
Emotions are data. Treat them as such.
During the holidays, successful teams fed emotional analytics into every stage of the funnel — from design reviews to campaign copy.
They didn’t just ask what users did. They asked how they felt while doing it.
When teams bring emotional context into sprint planning, decisions change.
A “frustrated” heatmap from customer feedback can reprioritize roadmap features faster than any OKR meeting ever could.
This isn’t “soft.” It’s strategic clarity.
Emotion is a signal of friction — or of love.
5️⃣ Remember: every user is celebrating something.
Christmas might be the most obvious season of joy, but every user journey has its own moments of meaning.
The student landing their first client.
The freelancer finishing a project.
The founder shipping a long-delayed release.
If you zoom out, product usage is a series of small celebrations.
The most resilient companies design for those, not just conversions.
Add tiny rituals, surprises, or acknowledgments inside your product.
Celebrate completion. Reflect progress. Encourage gratitude.
Because when your users feel seen — they stay.
💬 Real Talk: Why This Matters
At its core, this holiday season reminded us that technology isn’t about automation. It’s about amplification — of emotion, connection, and meaning.
The same systems that help people shop smarter can also teach us how to build more human-centered products.
Delight scales.
Empathy compounds.
Anticipation retains.
That’s the growth loop worth building into 2026.
Case Studies from the Season
Amazon’s Emotional Forecasting
When late-night shoppers seemed stressed, AI shifted “Buy now” prompts to “Still time to make it special.”
Conversion rose 19%.
Shopify’s Smart Holiday Engine
Shopify merchants using AI prompt-based copy tools saw 23% higher engagement during peak season.
Etsy’s Story Cards
AI-generated product stories (“crafted by a mother of three in Vermont…”) doubled time on page.
Emotional context, not discounts, drove retention.
The Broader Picture: Scaling Intimacy
For decades, we used tech to scale efficiency.
2025 reminded us it can scale emotion just as effectively.
Done responsibly, AI helps brands act more human — listening better, remembering longer, responding faster.
The future of product growth is this:
Systems that are as empathetic as they are efficient.
❤️ Real Talk: The Spirit Behind the Systems
At first glance, it might seem like algorithms have stolen some of the magic.
But look closer — they’ve actually made it more visible.
When your favorite store remembers what color you love — that’s not surveillance. That’s service.
When AI helps you write a card that says exactly what your heart means — that’s not cheating. That’s connection amplified.
This year, AI didn’t replace the warmth of the holidays.
It helped us scale it.
The Bottom Line
You can’t automate empathy — but you can design for it.
You can’t outsource love — but you can give technology the tools to mirror it.
AI isn’t here to replace the human touch.
It’s here to clear the clutter so our best intentions shine through.
This season, let’s remember:
The most powerful product we’ll ever build isn’t a model or an algorithm.
It’s trust.
And that — in its own quiet, luminous way — is the real magic of Christmas.
— Naseema
Writer & Editor, the AIJ newsletter
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